"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith"
2 Timothy 4:7
Heaven Sent : August 23, 1956
Called Home : April 14, 2025
Martha was born on the 23rd of August, 1956, in Santa, to the family of Mama Rebecca Angie and Honorable Pa Sam Mofor, both of blessed memory. She was the middle of five children. Growing up in a large polygamous family, she stood out for her intelligence, quiet strength, determination, hard work, and the kindness she so effortlessly gave to others. These qualities never left her—they only deepened with time. From a young age, Martha showed interest and passion for education. She wanted to be educated and did her best to show her father how serious she was about going to school. She completed her primary education in the Baptist Primary Schools of Mutengene and Great Soppo Buea.
She then moved to Bamenda, where she continued her secondary education at LCC Mankon from 1967 to 1972, where she was known for her academic excellence. She briefly worked with the Ministry of Public Health at the Bamenda Provincial Hospital before leaving for London in 1975 to pursue further studies. She was admitted to the London Pitman Institute for Secretarial Studies, where she graduated as a Company Secretary (Secrétaire de Direction). Martha also had many interests—she loved gardening, cooking, traveling, and adventure. Her ambitions were never just for herself but always intertwined with a desire to lift others and make a difference.
Whilst in London Pitman Institute, I met Martha in 1977 while I was still a student of Mechanical Engineering. From that moment, I knew I had met someone rare and extraordinary. We got on the 10th of December, 1977. We returned home from the UK in 1983, blessed with two beautiful girls—Akere and Shiri. In the later years, our last three children, Akwen, Cho Mancho, and Ngwena, were born in Cameroon. Today, they are all living in the USA, except Ngwena, who is currently based in Switzerland. Martha was blessed with seven beautiful grandchildren (four girls and three boys).
Together, we built a life rooted in love, respect, and faith. She stood by me in every season—through joys and sorrows, strengths and weaknesses. As a mother, she was tender and wise, yet very firm. She gave everything to our children—her time, her heart, her unwavering guidance and love. Her presence filled our home with peace, her laughter echoed in every room, and her prayers guarded us even when we didn’t know we needed them.
When I was employed by SONEL as a Mechanical/Metallurgist Engineer and posted to the Edea Hydroelectric Power Plant, she was also re-employed in the Ministry of Public Health at the Divisional Hospital in Edea, where we both spent 20 years of our working lives. Her wonderful personality earned her many public responsibilities in society. She was the first elder and chairlady of the Presbyterian Church in Edea and president of several associations in the community. She earned a commendation from the Moderator of the Presbyterian Church, the Right Reverend Nyansako, for her contribution in obtaining a strategic piece of land and in helping to erect a magnificent church building for the Presbyterian Church in Edea in 2002/2003.
Martha was never one to seek the spotlight, but her work—whether at church or at home—left a lasting mark. She served others quietly, with a grace that inspired everyone. Her strength was in her selflessness; her reward was in seeing others thrive. Our family was transferred to Douala in 2003, and she left for the USA in early 2004. She lived in Maryland until 2016 before moving to Texas, where she lived in Austin, Richardson, and finally Arlington.
Social Life
My wife was a woman of deep faith, sharp wit, and fierce love. She loved singing, traveling, gardening, and helping those in need in any way she could. Her generosity—whether in the form of cash or kind, offering sound advice, caring for others, or supporting small businesses—demonstrated the truly good person she was. She had a gift for making everyone feel seen and for speaking the truth with love. She was my compass when I lost direction, my comfort in sorrow, and my celebration in triumph.
She was called home on the 14th of April, 2025, in San Antonio, where she worked Mondays through Fridays and returned home to Arlington only on weekends. This is the biography of my beloved wife, Martha Ofey Mancho (née Mofor)—from heaven-sent to home-calling. She built a legacy not with wealth or fame but with devotion, sacrifice, and grace. That legacy will never fade. It lives on in the hearts she nurtured and the lives she changed.
May she be received into the bosom of the Lord, till we meet again to part no more. Amen.
“A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.” – Proverbs 31:10